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Feeling lonely

Feeling lonely is something everyone goes through sometimes, and it’s nothing to be ashamed of. People can feel lonely for many reasons, like feeling disconnected or misunderstood. It’s different from just being alone—someone can feel lonely even in a crowd, while others might enjoy being by themselves. Events like moving to a new place or ending a friendship or relationship can make people feel lonely. While loneliness itself isn’t a mental health problem, feeling lonely for a long time can affect your mental health negatively.

Things you can do

  • Reach Out to Friends and Family: Connect with someone you trust to talk about how you’re feeling and spend time together.
  • Try New Things: Take up a new hobby, go to social events or a new club at school to bring variety to your days and build confidence.
  • Limit Social Media: Take breaks from social media as it can often make people feel more isolated or compare themselves to others.
  • Stay Active: Physical activity can improve mood and help you feel more connected to your body and surroundings.
  • Be Patient with Yourself: Understand that it’s okay to feel lonely sometimes and that building connections takes time.

Resources

Support to help you manage feeling lonely

Building Connections - NSPCC

Building Connections is an online service for young people up to the age of 19, empowering them to find a way through loneliness. Young people work with a trained befriender, who guides them and champions them each step of the way. Building Connections gives young people tools that can help them build their confidence and better equip them to manage loneliness. More information and to make a referral to Building Connections
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